Sunday, October 31, 2010

Sunday Selah

to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless...
Ephesians 5:27

I saw her yesterday.
The Bride.

She was beautiful.

I had taken the younger kids to a birthday party for a friend at a huge arcade/mini-carnival ride venue. We were with several folks from our church family. Things were wrapping up, it was almost time to go, when 7 of 8's right finger got caught, ironically, in a safety gate surrounding one of the rides.

It was bad.

The end of the finger was so crushed and cut that it was hard to tell the extent of what had happened.

And the Bride sprang into action.

One of my friends helped me wrap 7 of 8's hand in wet paper towels and hustled to the van with me to get to the hospital, comforting 7 of 8 while mopping up blood. Another friend took charge of some of my younger kids and took them to her house. One of our elders came up to the hospital to wait with 4 and 8 of 8 until Mike could get there. Another friend called on the cell as we were driving, praying for us. Our pastor came up to the ER and sat and talked and prayed with 7 of 8. And one of the matriarchs of our church family sat with me as I chatted and distracted 7 of 8 while the doctor stitched everything back up and splinted her hand.

And everyone knew the significance of the injury to her right hand. Because we are family.

Because they know that because of the stroke 7 of 8 experienced at birth, she has significant weakness on her left side. Because they know that her left hand doesn't function too well. Because they know that her right hand is very important in her world.

Because they know.

Because we are family.

The bone at the end of her finger is broken and the end of her finger had to be stitched back together. 7 of 8 was amazing, taking it all in, never complaining, holding still when she needed to, talking with the doctors, doing what they asked.

She's just three and a half years old. And she took it all like a champ.

Although it's a serious injury, her doctors think she will heal up well, with full function of her finger.

We are so thankful.

And I am so amazed, so touched by the beauty and the compassion, the love and the heart of the Bride. The extended community of believers who make this city a home for us. To see the Bride sweep in in all her radiance, with prayers and phone calls, ER visits and distracting an injured toddler in the back of a van while her mama drives like mad to the hospital, all the facets of the Bride's radiance sparkled.

So why bother with church, why invest in the lives of other believers, why meet together and work together and deal with the messiness of each other's lives?

Because the Bride is a beautiful thing to behold indeed.

Selah.

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Saturday, October 30, 2010

JPEG of the Week

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~It's finally here~
~Fall~
~temps in the 60's~
~delicious~

~(and don't forget to enter this week's awesome giveaway!!! Click here!)~



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Friday, October 29, 2010

You Heard Right~Another Giveaway!

How does a $65 gift certificate sound?
That's what I thought.

CSN is a company of on-lines stores offering all manner of gorgeous stuff for your house and closet. I've been a little partial to the console tables site this week as coffee tables seem to be some of the most abused furniture items in this house. I loved this one that would have ample storage for pieces of remotes, random bits of Wii equipment, Barbie shoes and confetti from saltine crackers....

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I suppose other people would use those shelves and drawers for more mundane items such as coasters and fully operational remotes.

Amateurs.

Looking at the variety of coffee tables on CSN, I had one of those childhood memories rise to the surface.

My dad's office was refurnished when I was kid and we inherited a massive coffee table from the dregs. It weighed a ton and was an immovable fixture in the center of our family room. It had square squat cabinets on either end and an open shelf in the center.

That thing was the jungle gym of the fine home furnishing set.

And those end cabinets with the heavy doors and the industrial strength magnet latches were super handy.

For enclosing our youngest brother within.

Yeah.

We used to stuff Dave in there and shut the door.

He liked it.

Maybe.

We also 'helped' him hide in the sleeper sofa.

Back to CSN stores and giveaways...

So here's the dealio...CSN will be awarding one lucky Octamom reader a $65 gift certificate! So let's post The Rooles:

1. Be an Octamom 'follower'....hey, cults have to have membership and membership has its privileges.

2. Check out CSN stores and leave a comment about something you'd like to blow that $65 gift certificate on. There's ample plenty eye candy to choose, from coffee tables to shoes and kitchenware and kid stuff....

3. Tweet, FB, post on your own blog about this giveaway and receive extra entries.

4. The contest ends Wednesday, November 3rd at 11:59pm with the winner to be announced by Friday the 5th.

And as for our Bibleman Giveaway winner?

Drum roll please.....

Congrats DyessFam!!!! Contact me at octamom@octamom.com to tell me where to send your loot! And many thanks to all of you who entered and also to the beautiful Miss Lindsay Lewis for making the giveaway possible!


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Thursday, October 28, 2010

The Smoking Sharpie

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Sharpie markers are a high-altitude-dwelling, elusive item around this house.

As in, I hide them up as high as I possibly can.

But I have spawned children who are far smarter and creative than I.  Me.  I.

Plus, I get distracted.

A lot.

And they know it. And they use it against me.

And they lure those Sharpie markers down from the heights and they bid them to do evil marking deeds.

(...or it could be that I was on the phone and got distracted and was failed to keep proper count of the Sharpie population...but I'm sure that's not it...sort of....kind of...maybe...)

I turned the corner into my office and found that my computer screen had been, ah, altered.

And the keyboard...

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Sorry for the blurred effect of the crime scene. The Sharpie Bandit was still at large at this point. I was hasty in my photography.

For the record, a desperate internet search yielded a possible cure for my defaced computer. Behold:

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100% acetone nail polish remover.

Worked like a charm. And as of this morning, there is no burning hole in my computer screen. It's something about luring the non-polarity nature of a Sharpie with the likewise non-polarity nature of acetone, kind of like e-Harmony for stain removal.

Or so I hear.

I did find the Sharpie Bandit, a smoking, still-uncapped marker clasped in the Bandit's hot little hand.

Wanna see the culprit?

You sure?

Okay...

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Shame on you if you assumed the guilty was 8 of 8. Poor guy.

It's his twin who was the mastermind. This time.

Many thanks to all of you who entered the Bibleman Giveaway! The giveaway is now closed and Miss Lindsay Lewis is reading through all the entries! We'll be posting the winner tomorrow....and announcing a great new giveaway!


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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Dashboard Days

I call them Dashboard Days.

And they are critical to keeping the Octamom boat afloat.

When the tribe was younger and smaller, most of our days were spent at home. A few afternoons a week we ventured out for dance and soccer practices, but our morning and early afternoon routine was fairly established and replicable from day to day.

And that meant that math could be done in the same time slot each day and that a specific chore could be accomplished by a certain time and there was nap time and reading time and just good ol' time.

Those days are done.

Enter situational scheduling.

With the addition of more little kiddos and the maturing of the older kids, those more predictable days packed up and moved on. Therapy appointments for 4 of 8 and 7 of 8 take weekly priority and occupy important chunks of the calendar. A homeschool study for 2, 3 and 4 of 8 takes up one morning of the week. 2 of 8's work schedule at the dance studio, 3 of 8's internship in graphics design, my beloved commitments to women's ministry and speaking, dual credit classes at the community college, the regular babysitting jobs for some of the older kids, the travel to competition, the church service project, it all swirls in across the little squares that designate the days of the month.

But thankfully, a couple of times a week, we have mornings that are reminiscent of our early homeschool days, mornings that allow for a warm breakfast and doing math in our jammies. We shovel out the house, scrub down the bathrooms, run through spelling drills, get the clean laundry out of haphazard piles and into closets. We check our speed, top off the oil, refuel the gas tank and look for any 'check engine' lights.

Dashboard Days.

They've become protected territory around here, critical for assessing how things are going, a rest stop and a time to stretch our legs.

I used to think of these days as the days we had 'nothing' to do.

I've re-framed that thought.

Because I've found that these days are the ones that allow us to participate in all the zaniness that makes up the bulk of our week. These are the days we catch up, clean up and rest up.

Which are some of the most important activities of all.




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Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Metal Sunday

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I don't know.

I don't know if Mike can pull off the metal rocker dude thing.

He still looks awfully all-American. Whatever that means in this gorgeous melting pot of a country.

We had the opportunity to meet some amazing guys this Sunday as they came to our church to talk about Jesus and redemption, hitting rock bottom in the midst of great fame and surrendering to the Lord.

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Just in case it's confusing, Mike is the guy on the right. The rocker dude is the guy on the left.

And that guy on the left is Brian "Head" Welch. For years he was part of a very successful heavy metal band called Korn and during his time with the group, Brian achieved all the world has to offer. Fame. Money. Women. Which turned into...Drugs. Depression. Despair.

At the height of his fame and the bottom of his inner darkness, he prayed a prayer of desperation to be healed and cleansed and set free.

And he was.

He's now part of a ministry called the Whosoevers, traveling and telling his story along with Sonny Sandoval of P.O.D. and Ryan Ries, a well-known icon of the skateboard set.

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Because of their authenticity with a tough crowd, these guys have been able to speak into the lives of young people who are jaded and hardened by the world. They can speak directly to the apparition of rock and roll success.

In talking with them at lunch afterward, I was so struck by the tender hearts and gentle nature of these supposed tough metal guys. A couple of the guys are daddies and we talked about kids and orthodontia, family and home.  And it made me appreciate again how Jesus strongly scolded the Pharisees for being white-washed tombs, clean and shiny on the outside but dead on the inside. I thought of the words of the Lord in I Samuel 16:7 when He says, "The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart."

There are people who will only listen to the Whosoevers because of their rocker look. And there are those who might be looking at the pictures on this post with their left eyebrow raised practically to their scalp.

But I love serving a God who sees beyond all fashion statement, who sees as pure and undefiled a faith worked out in serving people and in speaking hope and light to a generation living in darkness.

(and don't forget to enter this week's awesome giveaway!)

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Monday, October 25, 2010

Chosen

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We made it.

Whew.

Saturday was the inaugural event for Chosen, a marathon benefiting international adoption.

JT and I have been training for many weeks for this race. While I have long been a runner, I'd never participated in a 'real' half-marathon. JT ran one last year and was the one who started making noise back in the spring that we should do the Chosen run.

JT's husband, AT, is doing an Iron Man in two weeks, so he also ran the Chosen, just as a, you know, training run and all. And he got his mom and sister to walk the half-marathon.

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Because it was for a fantastic cause.

And one that is close to all our hearts.

JT and AT are adopting a child from Ethiopia and are heading out in a few weeks for Africa for the first of two trips they will make to bring that sweet little one home. We've run many a mile together talking about this child, the incredible journey of bringing the vision of adding him to their family a reality. For now, we call him Brother and he has been a very real presence through all our training.

And there were many miles of training where Rose and Patricia were foremost in my thoughts. If you consistently read Octamom, you know about my precious friends Kristi and Russ who made a mission trip to Uganda last year and fell in love with two little girls at an orphanage. They began the adoption process and were to bring the girls home this spring.

And then things got a little crazy.

After completing almost all the steps necessary to bring the girls home, everything got snagged on a little item called visas.

You can go here for all the history.

For those of us stateside as Kristi and Russ struggled in Africa to try to get these girls home, we often felt helpless. As the spring months rolled into summer and then as JT and I began the formal training schedule for the race, Rose and Patricia's names were often my breath in and my breath out, a running prayer for doors to open and for a way to be made.

And in September, the Lord opened those doors.

And Rose and Patricia are now home.

So JT and I ran with signs on our backs, she for Brother and in memory of her nephew, me for Brother and for Rose and Patricia. And I wrote the girls' names on my hand, a little visual of their journey.

And I looked at my palm a few times.

Because this half-marathon course was something else.

Gorgeous and grueling.

Hills, hills, hills.

Did I mention the course had serious hills?

The course had serious hills.

When JT and AT and I looked at the course map and the elevation map, it didn't seem all that daunting. Yeah, a few inclines here and there. A little hiccup.

Maybe that's why they had us start the race in the dark.

We drove to Gruene, Texas, in the dark dark dark on Saturday morning. At race starting time, it was still dark. Mike came with us to cheer us on and to hold our keys.

He is very handy that way.

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As we took off, we couldn't see much of anything, other than the glowing iPods of the runners around us and the reflectors on the backs of running shoes. We could feel the undulations of the road under our feet and the gradual inclines and declines that marked the first couple of miles of the course, but our beacon in the dark dark dark were the flashing lights of the patrol cars marking the way in the distance.

And then the sun began to gain muted light through the cloud cover.

Around mile 3, we rounded a long curve and began a steep descent, headed toward the Guadalupe River. As that descent continued....and continued....and continued, we began to think about what it was going to take to get back.

The trail along the river was amazing. The Guadalupe flows a softened jade green through cream limestone cliffs. Campgrounds dot the shoreline, the scent of campfires perfuming the scenery. Campers stood along the roadside, sipping early morning coffee and cheering us on. Occasional gentle raindrops would cool our cheeks and a breeze would lift from the spring-fed waters of the river. We reached the turnaround point for the half-marathon, cheered on those continuing on to do the full marathon and made our u-turn in the road.

And then the climb began.

By mile 10, the ligaments than run on the outside of my knees had apparently learned English and were talking to me. Talking a lot. I kept trying to quiet them down with sips of water and Advil. Then JT's left knee started talking to her. And by mile 11, those ligaments were screaming at the two of us and JT was reciting Isaiah 40:31 and talking about Brother and I was looking at the names written on my hand. And the road kept climbing.

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We hadn't trained for such extreme terrain as this. While we were conditioned for distance and for gradual elevation changes, we had mainly trained on smooth, level roads with moderate hills.

But having watched Rose and Patricia's journey, the metaphor seemed apt.

As Kristi has told me of the experience of getting the girls here, in the final stages of that course, the terrain change was extreme. And Kristi and Russ often experienced pangs of fatigue and discouragement on those steeper hills.

But they kept drinking the water of the Word. And we kept cheering from the sideline.

And, eventually, around that last long curve and hill, the finish line came into view.

When JT and AT bring Brother home, I can't wait to stand at the finish line to cheer them on.

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JT and I grabbed hands and sprinted across the finish line together on Saturday. Our names were announced and recovery drinks were pushed into our hands. We were donned with medals around our necks and hugs and kisses from our spouses.

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And then we took in the scene around us, families with children adopted from across the globe, clans brought together across continents, tribes built from compassion and hope and sacrifice and joy.

Chosen.

Makes me want to do it all over again next year.

Once my knees stop talking to me.

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Sunday, October 24, 2010

Sunday Selah

but those who hope in the LORD
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary
Isaiah 40:31

It never ceases to amaze me, how the Word speaks to this time and this place.
The Living Word.

For a document composed and recorded through antiquity, it is miraculous how the prose and wisdom speaks into my 21st century day.

There were verses that carried us yesterday during our race. A friend had made a poster for JT's front door with the verse Isaiah 40:31.

And it was those words JT repeated as we began a long climb up a steep hill deep into the race.


but those who hope in the LORD 
will renew their strength. 
They will soar on wings like eagles; 
they will run and not grow weary


Words from a prophet in an obscure land. Words written in a time when our organized running events of this century would have seemed a strange and inexplicable sight.

Words that still resound today when two moms struggle up a hill at the end of a long run, knees creaking, brows sweaty, friendship deepened.

The Word.

It still speaks.

Even in today. Even into our little efforts and interests and experiences.

May it speak to you today.

Selah.

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Saturday, October 23, 2010

JPEG of the Week

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~Today's the Day~
~13.1 miles~
~Chosen~
~a marathon benefiting international adoption~
~What an honor to run for these precious kids~

(oh, and don't forget to enter this amazing giveaway!)


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Friday, October 22, 2010

Let the Giveaway Begin!

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If you tuned into yesterday's post, you're ready.

That's right.

We've got a big giveaway going on over here today.

I introduced you to a gorgeous face yesterday and that face belongs to the beautiful Lindsay Lewis, who plays Melody in the new Bibleman DVD series.

Bibleman is a spiritual superhero who fends off enemies of the soul with wisdom from the Word. Melody (our beautiful Lindsay) is one of his sidekicks, helping in the battle for good.

And check this out...

Lindsay has graciously offered the whole set of the new Bibleman series to one lucky Octamom reader.

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Love it.

The set includes seven new Bibleman titles from Tommy Nelson publishing and Steve Gilbreath Television. Your kids, cousins, grandkids, neighbors will love 'em!

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So here's the rules...'cuz every giveaway has got to have a few rules.

1. Become a 'follower' of Octamom, if you aren't already...('follower'...sounds like I'm trying to develop a cult here....)

2. Leave a comment about the series and why you would like to win it.

3. Tweet, FB, what have you, for extra entries.

4. Mention it on your blog with a link back here for yet another chance to win!

5. Sorry, but we'll only be shipping the DVDs to a U.S. address...so you're welcome to enter if you're out of the States, but shipping will only be within the country. Then again, if you've got someone in the U.S. you were going to be sending Christmas gifts to anyway, winning this would take care of that!

6. The winner will be selected by the beautimus Miss Lewis by 11:59 pm on Wednesday, October 27th and will be posted on the following Thursday morning.

Get your typing fingers ready, get set, go!


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Thursday, October 21, 2010

Fab and Fav

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I love this girl.

She's one of my favs.

And she's fab.

She and I work together in ministry and she has somehow managed to figure out where my mental bunny trails and meanderings are heading and can put together cogent power points and graphics for me in spite of my randomness.

I dearly appreciate people who deal with my randomness.

But this girl has a secret past.

That's also part of her present.

And future.

She is an actress.

Like, for real.

As in, has actually made movies.

So I was thrilled when she asked me to help her update her headshots recently.

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Look at that face, that smile, those eyes.

This kid oughta be in pictures. Which, of course, she is...

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Now here's a cool little deal.

She has generously sponsored a GIVEAWAY for tomorrow. Yep. A giveaway I'm extremely excited about. Something that relates to her acting career. Something you're going to love.

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So keep pondering this compelling face and come back tomorrow for a fantastic giveaway! See if you can figure out where you know this gorgeous face from.

Oops. Pardon my dangling participle there...

Here's looking at you, Kid!


My creation




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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Feelin' Fall

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Yes, we're still pegging temps in the high 80's around here.

But that's not going to stop me.

Inside, it's all pumpkins and nutmeg and gourds.

I speak of fall decor.

My fav.

I used to really go all out.

That was before 8 of 8.

And his ceramic pumpkin smashing habits.

I'll have to post some pics of the carnage.

But for now, I pull out the remaining, somewhat scathed collection and put it up on high places...

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Things are generally somewhat safer in our dining room.

Our dining table was Mike's Grammy's. The first autumn that Mike and I were dating, he invited me to spend Thanksgiving with he and his family up at their lake cabin. This was the table we gathered around for Thanksgiving dinner, a circle of faces who would become my family.

Not that I knew it at the time.

I just knew that I thought Mike was hot.

The picture above my fall display is one that hung in my grandmother's dining room. And then my mother's. And now mine.

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I found these apothecary jars at a tiny hovel on an antique shop in the Ozark mountains of Arkansas. They apparently were previously owned by a country doctor, well beloved in the community as healer and counselor.

Oh, wait.

Um, actually, nope.

I bought 'em at Costco.

But maybe they'll be antiques one day. If I can keep 8 of 8 away from them. Maybe they'll sit in my great-granddaughter's dining room and she'll write a blog post about heirlooms and dining rooms and apothecary jars that her great-grandmother bought at a quaint little general store called Costco.

And her dinner guests will oh-and-ah.

If I can just keep 8 of 8 away from them today.

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This buffet that all my fall decor sits upon in my dresser. Yes, it is. Yes, my pajamas and tank tops are stored within.

But it's the perfect height and size for this room. And I don't mind coming in here to find my clothes.

And yes, I do understand your concerns about efficiency and the general unease you have with my unmentionables being stored in the dining room. But for now, until I find the perfect buffet in a little hovel of an antique shop in the Ozark mountains of Arkansas, this will have to suffice.


Or until Costco carries something that will fit here.


And the Venetian plaster treatment on the walls? I know!  Isn't it gorgeous?  I'm so glad you like it.


Here's how I created that plaster look.


I edited the photo in Picnik.  And they have this new 'texture' feature.  And you can slap it on your photos.  And make anything look all Venetian plaster-y.  Easiest home improvement project I've ever done...


So what are you doing for fall?


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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Photo Mojo

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The twins and I are having a little challenge.

We seem to have de-railed our Photo Mojo.

For a while it seemed that every time I grabbed the camera, adorable photos would ensue.

But lately, I seem to be getting more shots like this...

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Um.

Yeah.

And some like this...

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And a couple like this...

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But every now and then, when I feel like chucking my lens, they'll throw me a bone...

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We'll get through this. We'll find our Photo Mojo once again...



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Monday, October 18, 2010

Daddy's Girl

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Make no mistake.

This little girl has her daddy wrapped around her finger.

She is Kryptonite to his Superman parenting powers.

She leaves him all mushy.

And gushy.

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And she absolutely knows it...



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