Monday, March 2, 2009

Monday Musings...Aroma Memory

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Estee Lauder Youth Dew perfume.

The scent of my childhood.

Because that's what my mother always wore.

Even now I can conjure the fragrance of it in my memory, the lingering bouquet on my mother's skin as I would sit next to her during church. She only wore a spritz of it, never heavily sprayed, but that little hint of fragrance would cling to her coat, her robe, her side of the closet. The amber colored bottle, with its little gold metal bow would sit on her vanity, ready to quietly wrap an aura of clove and rose around my mother's Sunday best or Teacher/Parent Conference dress pants and blouse.

Ah, Youth Dew.

Back in the old over-the-top '80's, I wore Opium and its drugstore knockoff step-sister scent, Ninja. I would practically dip my clothes in the stuff, certain that a well-dressed person would never appear in public without trailing a signature scent. How my date for the evening would manage to sit next to me in the car without going into anaphylactic shock is beyond me; perhaps his own thick coating of Polo cologne helped buffer my perfume onslaught.

But those perfumes and aftershaves and colognes do linger in the memory, don't they? Those little reminders of a person's dressing routine, the combination of florals and fruits which tell us how someone sees themselves in scent. Another layer of self-revelation, an olfactory oracle of soul.

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Fashions change, trends morph. Today's hypoallergenic sensibilities tend away from the heavily perfumed. Light body sprays and scented lotions are the modern sachet. But those classic standbys still conjure strong recollection.

Youth Dew; my mother. Wind Song; my grandmother. Aramis; my father. A slight tickle to my nose and I am six years old again, still young enough to press my nose into the flesh of each of their necks and breath them in. It never occurred to me at that age that those colognes could be purchased and worn by other people. To me, those aromas were associated solely to my loved ones.

And those monopolized essences linger still in redolence reflection.

So what perfume brings memory to mind for you? What cut-crystal bottles on the vanity of your childhood recall times, places, events? Haul those scent scrapbooks off the back shelf and share your scented recollections here, either by writing your own post on this topic and putting the url of your post and your name in the Mister Linky's box below or by simply leaving a comment. Tell me what perfumes your world!





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31 comments:

  1. funny you should bring this up! my grandmother had a scent that she wore, and i can rememeber it well. however, i don't remember what it was called- i was much too young to be aware of such things. i do remember that it was in a yellow bottle with blue writing. my grandmother was a very kind and sweet woman, always very loving to her children and grandchildren. i have lots of happy memories playing on their farm! thanks for reminding me!

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  2. My grandmother wore "White Shoulders". I can stil remember the bottle and the scent! I wear a perfume on Sundays . . . usually one of my mother-in-laws. I like to put it on when we pick her up for church!

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  3. My mother was a big fan of Cinnabar. I knew when she had been in the room, but she never wore it heavily. She would spray it in the air and run under the mist.

    My tastes changed as I got older, first Roses Roses by Avon. I still smell that and reminisce. Then onto Jontue and then Dilys by Laura Ashley. I am not much on perfumes anymore, but the memories of those are wonderful.

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  4. My mom wore Chanel #5, however, what I remember the most are the scents of Jergens lotion and Oil of Olay, which were constants in her bedtime routine. My husband was the first man (at least outside the marketing department at Giorgio) to wear the men's version of Red... on our wedding day. His sister, an insider at the company, had given him a bottle before it was released to the public. When my daughter was younger, she would play with all of my perfume bottles, imagining that they were entire families of people! That's a memory I hold dear!

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  5. My Mum used to wear Rive Gauche, (as well as almost everyone else in the 70's/80's!). I remember the transformation when she got ready to go out, putting on make-up and perfume and suddenly looking like someone completely different!

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  6. My mom had a vast array of different scents, so none really stood out, but as a teen I wore a perfume called Exclamation. I can still find it at department stores, but have not purchased it. I occasionally spritz myself with the sample though. :)

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  7. My mom wore Youth Dew too!! What a coweequidink!!

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  8. My Mother wore Beautiful and still does. Every time I catch a hint of it I am in Middle School again! My Dad wore Eternity and I just loved it and still do. My sitter wore Sand and Sable so every time I smell that I am in preschool!

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  9. Jean Nate, for my mother...

    and if I were ever to get a whiff of Love's Baby Soft, it would be 7th grade all over again.

    Which might not be a good idea...

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  10. I Mister Linky'd a post about my Grandma's scent.

    And SubrubanCorrespondent, I was a Love's Baby Soft ADDICT. All through HS. Good times.

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  11. You really bring back memories. My grandmother wears Youth Dew and has for as long I can remember. When I was young we lived in New Mexico and my grandparents lived in Idaho. We came to visit several times a year, but a few months is a very long time in the life of a six year old. In between visits I would sometimes not be able to recall Grandma's face. Her perfume and the sound of her clock chimes were the memories that always surfaced when I thought of her. Now we live with her (and my husband and three kids) and we can always tell when she's up, because we smell the slight fragrance throughout the house as she prepares for the day.

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  12. What a flood of memories of smells.......Olay is my MIL, Pond's facial is my Maw Maw, pipe smoke is my great-grandpa Tune, Paw Paw was Electic Shave or Brut. Mom wore all kinds and still does.....always looking for a "different smell" than every one else. Dad wore whatever Mom bought.

    Avon's Sweet Honesty was the first I got to wear with permission. Loved Jean Nate too.

    Can't use too much now due to allergies, but have a couple. One that should ring a bell with you, Julie, is Bath and Body Works Pear Glace....still have some and still wear it and think of you sometimes. Miss that bagel shop with the scrumcious sesame and honey almond cream cheese bagels!

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  13. I don't think the women in my family were big perfume wearers. My great-grandmother had a scent, but I haven't smelled it in so long. Sigh. My husband, what he uses I LOVE. After he leaves I will stand in the bathroom and breathe it in. I don't know what it is though.

    Great post!

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  14. Funny how smells can trigger memories. Good and bad. :)

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  15. My dad, Sunday mornings, getting ready for church and spraying on Elizabeth Taylor's Passion for Men...

    scents are amazing things...I actually just wrote a post mentioning this very subject (funny how great minds think)

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  16. My Grandmother always wore Amari by Avon. I will never forget that scent. In fact, my father now lives in my grandparents house (they passed 3 years ago) and to this day, if you open the corner medicine cabinet, the scent of Amari will take you over! Poor thing, he has tried everything to get rid of it, says it's not good for his chances with the ladies!!!

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  17. Like many of the others, I wore Love's Baby Soft throughout middle school. My mom's signature scent which still reminds me of her, though she no longer wears it, is Ralph Lauren's Lauren. Throughout high school, I changed fragrances almost as fast as I changed personalities (Tribu by Benetton, Curve, Laura Ashley #1, and then back again).

    Of course, I liked my guys to wear Aspen. One whiff of that and I still get dreamy, goggly eyes.

    Today, I rarely wear anything beyond using a random bottle of scented discount bodywash. Oh to have time to ponder what fragrance to wear as I did in high school.

    -Abby
    @sweetbabboo

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  18. my mom rarely wore perfume, but when she did she wore lancome's perfume. and then switched midway through my teenage years to donna karen's cashmere (which she still wears). for me, I wore Tiffany from high school until I turned 26 and then all the sudden I turned into a chanel girl and have been ever since.

    my mom-mom never wore perfume, but she always smelled so good. dove soap was her secret :)

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  19. I loved this post. My mama wore youth dew also. I did not like the scent of it back then, but I think she just wore a heavy layer of it. I prefer the lighter scents.
    Last year our family went to Bermuda on a vacation. There is a perfume factory there that you can tour and learn about ingredients. Anyway, I couldn't decide which I liked best, so I just purchased a sample of each. I love perfume. I actually have a collection and use what strikes my mood.
    It is funny how the smells reminds us of past times. I just loved this post.

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  20. Aw, the mem'ries! Momma wore Youth Dew, too, and I thought she was so sophisticated (and she still is). That scent still brings a sense of comfort with it. I remember seeing that bottle with the gold bow sitting in the middle of her other products and wishing that I was old enough to wear it.

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  21. I can't remember the name of the perfume my mom wore, but I remember what the bottle looked like. Flowery and pretty. I know I would remember the smell if I smelled it again.

    Thanks for the reminder!

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  22. My Mom always wore Victoria from Victorias secret and the scent totally reminds me of her!! But now they discontinued it :(
    Thanks so much for following my blog!! Your photographs are amazing!!!

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  23. Melted tar that is used to surface a road always takes me back to when I was five.

    We were one of the first families to move into a new housing estate and the houses were still being built along with the roads being surfaced.

    Ahhh.

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  24. Tresor reminds me of High school. I can't wear perfume anymore. It gives me a headache. :)

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  25. Wow amazing the memories smells bring back!!

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  26. Obsession reminds me of High School. Jean Nate reminds me of Junior High!

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  27. My Nana wore Mitsuko. UNmistakeable. I had a gold lamme purse that she sprayed some into; every time I opened it... there she was. I did the same thing for my daughter with my mother's perfume, because she lives far away. Scents bring memories back almost better than music - and that's saying something!

    Blessings, Carolynn

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  28. smells bring powerful memories - all the emotions included... we had old spice in our bathroom when i was growing up. my dad never wore it, but i never want my husband to because it makes me think he's my dad somehow. places have distinct smells, too. africa, india, hawaii - the tropical smells are the strongest.

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  29. That is something that you do bring that up- wow. Mine was the same exact thing. I often have wondered if you can even by Youth Dew anymore. I can still go in her closet and smell it on her clothes and stuff- amazing.

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  30. Walk down memory lane. I can remember a scent as if it were yesterday but as far as names that always escapes me.

    I too was a luvs baby soft wearer. LIke some PP.

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  31. My mother wore "My Sin" by Lanvin when I was little, but then decided she didn't like the name. I remember her wearing "Passion" the most, followed by "White Diamonds." Her mother (my nanny) always smelled like Jergens Cherry Almond lotion ... I still love that smell!

    In high school I wore Charlie and T'jours Moi. I wore Giorgio in college, but being a fragrance nut, I also wore Lauren, Red Door, and Beautiful. (But never at the same time. LOL) If I were going to have a signature scent it would have been "Delicious" by Gayle Hayman, but I heard that when she and Fred Hayman divorced, Delicious got caught in the crossfire and is no longer made. :(

    My favs now are "Romance" by Ralph Lauren and Japanese Cherry Blossom from Bath & Body Works. My husband loves fragrance, too, and wears Cool Water (probably my favorite), Chaps, Pierre Cardin, Polo, and Drakkar.

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