To talk of old times with old friends is the greatest thing in the world.
-Will Rogers
-Will Rogers
It's been little slices of heaven the last couple of weeks.
My in-laws were in town, then I traveled out of town to and got to see some old friends and then this weekend had some other dear friends come to visit.
It's been "Old Home" week, as my Mississippi grandmother would say.
These are all people I miss dearly, miss the more local interaction I had with each of them when we all lived in the same town. It has been a deeply felt loss to not be living our lives alongside one another geographically any longer.
But there is a bit of the mysterious in getting to have these little pockets of time with people I have known and loved so well.
When I look in the precious faces of my visiting loved ones, I am struck with how I have memorized them, how I can anticipate so strongly the next gesture that will follow, the cadence of speech, the twinkle in an eye. When I sit chatting with each of these people, I know that I will come away refreshed, renewed, inspired. And I know that as they are looking at me, as they graciously play attentive audience to my silly stories and meandering philosophical ponderings, that they too have committed me to their hearts.
It's a sweetly comforting thing, to feel that the spirit in each of these dear friends is so recognizable, so known to me, familiar, well-trod pathways of friendship and relationship comfortable beneath my feet in this journey. And it is so powerful to know that while miles now separate us, and if the Lord tarries, that the confines of time may one day separate us until we are all called home, I carry the contours of these amazing people's hearts with me everywhere.
I do love to take my pictures of these long-distance compadres, I do love our frequent phone conversations and emails. But to talk face to face, to be able to anticipate the next burst of laughter, to see the track of a tender-hearted tear make its way down the well-known crinkle at the corner of a beloved eye, it is both a chance to learn anew and to also memorize again the poems of colloquy and countenance, tone and turn of phrase.
Old Home Week.
One of my favorite events.
So what do you notice when you get to spend some time with an old friend? Do you see the way things have changes or do you bask in the memories and the familiarity? What makes you feel like you're enjoying a piece of Old Home pie? Write your thoughts in a post and put the url of that post, along with your name in the Mister LInky's box below, or put your thoughts in comment form.
We had old home week back in New Hampshire when I was growing up. It's a phrase I use often when I've been blessed to spend good times with old friends and with family.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you've been enjoying your own "old home week". What a joyful post!
- Julia
I am blessed to be living in my original growing up area...so I can see many of those precious faces ALOT!!! Neat thoughts! :-)
ReplyDeleteI love when I get to be with old friends! It is such a blessing!
ReplyDeleteWe live so far away from everyone that I know exactly what you mean. Although I talk and email those far off loved ones often, there is nothing like actaully sitting with them and talking. There is something so satisfying about gestures and facial expressions and character that stays the same. It sounds like you had a lovely, lovely week!
ReplyDeleteI just love talking about the old memories. Reminiscing is one of my favorite things to do. :)
ReplyDeleteYou express things so well!
ReplyDeleteI love the feeling that someone knows me and I can be myself and be loved!
I also notice the way things have changed. And then I wonder how much I have changed!
I'm so happy for you to get to spend time with your friends and family. I only have one friend who lives far away and she'll be home at Easter. :-)
ReplyDeleteIt's nice you got to see your friends and family. I have an aunt who lives in Ohio that I don't see often. I usually think of her as a second mom and when I get to spend time with her I usually notice how things have changed and we talk about the past sometimes. I know I'm enjoying a piece of Old Home pie when I can just be with my aunt and talk about things and feel like things are okay again because she is there.
ReplyDeleteLove spending face to face time, love it! Old Home Week! Hooray!
ReplyDeleteI am a latecomer to Facebook but just this week have reconnected with friends from high school. I am having that old home feeling.
ReplyDeleteOH! How lovely! This was such a sweet post..just made me wish I could see some of my family that is far away right now :(
ReplyDeleteOh i am going to play along to this tongiht after work..great post!
ReplyDeleteOld friends are the best friends! I've had some old home time lately and just enjoyed just sitting silently drinking coffee with Mrs Friend like we used to, reading endless stories to their little ones like I did before they left town, listening to stories spun by Mr Friend about anything and everything. I think I need to call them tomorrow...
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