It's not just the 15 passenger van parked in front of the house. It's not just the multi-population of soccer balls decorating the front yard. It's not just the cardboard castles designed, taped and sagging in the front flower bed.
It's probably just the generalized chaos, particularly if you are someone who actually believes in clean base boards and knows if your kids are missing a pair of shoes.
These items are not things that would even grace my radar screen.
But for my fearless neighbor, JT, being the Octamom long-suffering neighbor is a daily marathon of watching the chaos and craziness from the coziness of her perfectly appointed home. She is a brave, brave soul.
She puts aside her natural strengths and preferences for order and cleanliness and braves the laundry piles and shoe population right inside my front door, just to tell me hi or to invite the kids to come play. She surveys all the mayhem in cheerful disbelief and pretends to not be too scandalized.
You gotta love that.
So since I owe her such a debt, I jumped at the opportunity to give back a little, to try to in some way to pay her back for her support and love and lowering of standards. We set up a little impromptu photo studio in the natural light of my master bath and clicked a few shutter stops:

Yep, darn cute. These fine young Americans are 5 and 6 of 8's best buddies, CT and AT, and are JT's darling kids. We got a few pictures for the Christmas card and the grandparents.



But even after taking the pictures, even after bringing down a few baked goodies, I still felt indebted to the long-suffering JT. How could I ever repay her for her tolerance, her patience, her willingness to ignore her own need for peace and order and enter the chaotic world just three doors down? How could I ever make it even?
And then it happened.
She called while we were on the road, pounding the miles to get to our Oklahoma Christmas Family Celebration Extravaganza. My cell phone rang...and JT uttered these magic words, the words that made every thing even again, the words that rendered the friendship balance sheet back to equitable.
And those words were...
"I just got back from the pediatrician. CT and AT have strep...I think we've infected your family."
Ah...the inequities have been reconciled. The friendship ledger is now balanced.
I think I'm good to call the debt resolved...
*I'm also thrilled to announce the 5 winners of the Scrapblog Giveaway:
Angie of Nanna Days
Rachael of Little Bites of Heaven
Brandi of Lolo's Blog
Dixie Mom
Tracy in NC
Congrats to all the winners and many thanks to all of you who entered. Winners, please email me at octamom@octamom.com for instructions on how to create and print your very own Scrapblog Calendar!
Awesome photos they are cuties, albeit cuties with strep, ahhhh...i hope all heal quickly. And Congrats winners!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm really impressed with the photos. These were really done in a bathroom???
ReplyDeleteWhat a cute photo shoot! I can't believe it was done in your bathroom..
ReplyDeleteOh, and "Yeah!!!!" I have never won a giveaway before. I am so excited!
Thanks!!
OK - I know I've said it before, but I'm serious ... I don't know if I can come here anymore because I'm about to pass out from all the blows to my self confidence.
ReplyDeleteYou're beautiful, you're a fantastic mom, a gifted writer, an obviously damn good photographer and judging from your home decor photos in a previous post, you're descended in someway from Martha Stewart. And I'm sure there's lots of other things too, but I think I'm mentally blocking them out for my own self preservation.
those picture are adorable hoping you all don\t get sick!
ReplyDeleteadorable! Good luck with the Strep!
ReplyDeleteReject the Strep, Reject the Strep, Come against the Strep.
ReplyDelete:-)
Beautiful photos!!!
Some day, when I grow up, I hope to be the photographer and writer that you are! Love this pictures!!!
ReplyDeleteOh! And I won! How exciting is that!
Thanks and loves to everyone!
You think she did it on purpose?
ReplyDeletegreat photos! hope no one turns up with strep in your clan! And you have inspired me to bake this weekend for my neighbors!
ReplyDeleteBummer...we just had strep here too! Lovely.
ReplyDeleteYou took those photos in your bathroom??? Please, do tell. I just got a nice camera, but really I am clueless as how to make that kind of magic happen.
wow, they turned out really adorable! what cuties!
ReplyDeleteyay, i won! thanks for picking me :)
The photos are awesome! I love photography.
ReplyDeleteHope you guys don't end up with strep for the holidays. That's one "gift" that isn't needed. lol
We are moving into your neighborhood just for the photos of our kids. You are so talented! 3 out of 5 of our clan have Strep as I type. Another one has an ear infection. I am the last one standing...
ReplyDeleteMrs. Nurse Boy
We are moving into your neighborhood just for the photos of our kids. You are so talented! 3 out of 5 of our clan have Strep as I type. Another one has an ear infection. I am the last one standing...
ReplyDeleteMrs. Nurse Boy
Those are beautiful...you do fabulous works!
ReplyDeleteLOL Glad things have evened out for you, finally!! =)
ReplyDeleteAnd LOVE the pictures - AWESOME!!
Beautiful bathroom pics. Much better than what would normally come to mind re: bathroom sessions :) Hope ya'll don't get sick!!!!
ReplyDeleteSo, thanks to my recent posts are you now watching eveyone for freakish little mozzie bites that turn weird slowly evolving into massive lumps threatening to take over their limbs?
ReplyDeleteHope you are all strep free for christmas!
Cute and contagious. A great combo.
ReplyDeleteGreat job on the photo shoot!
ReplyDeleteYep. You sound about even with your neighbor now! I hope your clan doesn't really get sick, though. Hopefully, the bug will pass you by.
ReplyDeleteThe photos are beautiful. I'm sure your neighbor was beyond happy to receive such a gift.
Take care and be safe on the road!
Roban