3 of 8 is an 'active' listener. As a little guy, he would be the one standing on his head, picking lint out of the carpet, rolling one extended foot in a large circle. He doesn't 'look' like he is listening...he looks more like an advertisement for Adderall. But somehow, even though quite aerobic, he manages to have an incredible recall for the lessons taught during these times.
When 3 of 8 was about 4 years old, we had been through a round of having to be on the kids quite a bit about various behavior issues. This one had been sassy, that one had been passively rebellious, this one had just flat broken the rules about not sneaking cupcakes upstairs to the bathroom and eating them in the closet. M decided that he would teach a family devotional on obedience and how parents who love their kids make sure those kids understand and follow the family rules. M paraphrased a passage from Proverbs, saying, "Kids, remember, the man who loves his children disciplines them. A father who wants the best for his kids makes sure they follow the rules. BUT...he who does not love his kids doesn't bother. He who hates his children will not set rules and will not discipline his kids. He who won't do these things doesn't love his kids at all..."
At which point, 3 of 8 stood stock-still from his twitching, foot rolling fidgeting and said, "Daddy, who is He Who and why does he hate his children?"

Ah, the ol' cupcakes-in-the-linen-closet transgression!
ReplyDeleteOut of the mouths of babes come such delightful comments/thoughts on how they decipher the information we are trying to explain to them.
ReplyDeleteKids crack me up all the time, when I am being too serious, and being me right back down to earth......love them!
Peggy
In our house, it's usually ME who's hiding in the closet trying to sneak a little chocolate :0) Very cute story!
ReplyDeleteLOL seriously. kids can be so darned cute.
ReplyDeletebtw-i just got the blog name. how clever of you, slow for me.
have a great Tuesday.
sandra/merryheart2
lol...
ReplyDeleteOh dear so funny!
ReplyDeleteOh dear so funny!
ReplyDeleteI do believe He Who was one of the minor profits! Lol!! Too cute!
ReplyDeleteThat really is funny! I remember doing something similar with the Hail Mary when I was a kid. Very cute.
ReplyDeleteI stole cookies from my moms Christmas cookie stash. I totally understand where 3 of 8 is coming from. He Who! Too cute.
ReplyDeleteLove it! My son is also an "Active LIstener" love the term. Its amazing how much they actually absorb is left to do the wiggling they need to do. When I require him to sit still, all he can think about is when will this be over.
ReplyDeleteKids say the funniest things. It's funny how kids interpret the things they see and hear.
ReplyDeleteKristie
Right. Of course. Along with Mr. Thou Shalt. He's a real meany!
ReplyDeleteOh that is PERFECTION! We have a "fidget-y" listener too, but amazing what they are taking in, isn't it?
ReplyDeletekids says the darnedest things at the best times ..
ReplyDeleteMy daughter's Sunday School Teacher worked with her class dilligently for a Easter Sunday small presentation. My daughter was chosen to quote the verse "He is not here, He is risen." This scripture was the core element of any Easter program.
Time comes for my precious angel to say here line. In her best 6 year old voice, she proudly proclaimed, "He is not here .... (Dramatic pause) ... He is not coming!"
Oh the fun of kids and memorized Bible verses.
thanks for reminding me of this memory
www.won-by-one.blogspot.com
That is so funny! It sounds like it should be a comedy routine...Who is he who? He who is who? Who who? HAHAHAHA!
ReplyDeleteNonetheless, I really loved the message. I feel bad sometimes on being tough with my kids. I don't let them off easy when they knowingly break the rules or are completely disrespectful. But I love them to the core of my soul!
That's too cute. It's kinda funny when those moments pop up during the serious times.
ReplyDeleteOMG that is just adorable! Fantastic lesson to teach your offspring..but maybe next time He who would like to pop in and help out! LOL that is too funny i think i will chuckle all evening now!
ReplyDeleteI love the minds of children! They tell it like it is.
ReplyDeleteThat is really funny! This is my first visit to your wonderful blog and so glad I did!
ReplyDeleteAWW - so funny and cute. It is so great ya do devotionals as a famiy.
ReplyDeleteHe Who is totally that guy in the Bible who hates everyone all the time and gets in trouble for it. Obviously.
ReplyDelete3 of 8 sounds alot like I do when it comes to listening. I always move around and look at other things but I am listening when I do all of that. Hope you have a good day.
ReplyDeleteI found you from Casey's Trio. You have eight children? I'm impressed!!
ReplyDeleteThat He Who. All the time hating on his children. What a riot! Kids are so literal.
ReplyDeleteYou are in big trouble-- that one is going to pay attention to everything you say (in my house there are certain times when you should just ignore Mommy).
ReplyDeleteWhat a clever one 3 of 8 is!
Sounds like my number 3!!
ReplyDeleteSteph
so cute!
ReplyDeleteLove that you have that memory of your devotional time together!! So sweet.
That is too cute! kids are so sweet
ReplyDeleteSOO great!! Kids say the best things, Love it!!
ReplyDeleteLOL! Sounds like our middle child :)
ReplyDeleteThat is so stinking funny.
ReplyDeleteOMgosh. How funny and nice to know he is really following along :)
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